關(guān)于成功的定義有什么建議？
今天學(xué)習(xí)啦小編就帶大家聊聊關(guān)于成功的定義，歡迎閱讀。
成功的定義
Success is mostly defined by luxury items – a certain job title perhaps, or in general by society. No matter where you look, it is something that other people have decided you need to have in order to be considered successful.
成功主要是由奢侈品決定的——也許是某個職位，或者是社會大眾定義的各類奢侈品。無論你從哪個角度看，都是別人認(rèn)為你需要擁有某些東西才能被認(rèn)為是成功的。
What would success be for each of us if nobody had ever given us a definition? What would our own definition of success be?
如果沒有人給我們定義我們每個人的成功是什么?那我們自己對成功的定義是什么?
My point of view about success is different: I have no definition. Once you define something, any flexibility for something greater or new is excluded. People start to focus on whatever they have defined “their success” should look like – but does focusing here really lead to success? Or does it just put more pressure on your shoulders to finally reach something that others have defined as a “must have” in everyone’s live?
我對成功的看法是不同的：我沒有定義。一旦定義了是什么，就排除了對更大或更新事物的任何靈活性。人們開始關(guān)注他們所定義的“他們的成功”應(yīng)該是什么樣的，但是在這點(diǎn)上集中精力真的會成功嗎?或者它只會在你的肩膀上施加更多的壓力來最終達(dá)到別人在生活中定義為“必須擁有”的東西?
What if success was not the amount of money you make, neither the number of likes or followers you have on social media, nor the Maserati in your driveway. What if success was everything that makes you happy, that makes you excited and that puts a big smile on your face? If every day you smile more than being angry or stressed or anxious-ridden, is that a successful day?
如果成功不是你賺的錢，也不是你在社交媒體上的喜好或追隨者的數(shù)量，也不是你的車道上的瑪莎拉蒂。如果成功是使你快樂的一切，那會讓你興奮，讓你臉上綻放出笑容嗎?如果你每天微笑多于憤怒、壓力或焦慮，那是成功的一天嗎?
Could that ever be considered real success? Yes, if it contributes to your financial situation and leads to more money and wealth in your life.
這能被認(rèn)為是真正的成功嗎?是的，如果它有助于你的財(cái)務(wù)狀況，并帶來更多的財(cái)富和金錢在你的生活中。
You might ask, how could that ever be enough of a contribution to your business, to expand and generate enough income to pay all your bills, to go on vacation, and to create sustainable wealth and luxury?
你可能會問，這怎么能對你的事業(yè)做出足夠的貢獻(xiàn)，擴(kuò)大和創(chuàng)造足夠的收入來支付你的賬單，去度假，創(chuàng)造可持續(xù)的財(cái)富和奢侈品?
擴(kuò)展“成功”
Let me share some thoughts that might help you to if you’re open to removing the limitations of defining “success”:
如果你愿意打開或是移除對“成功”的局限，讓我分享一些也許對你有幫助的想法：
1) Increase your smiles
增加你的微笑
Start with one additional smile a day. Don’t do an artificial “I am happy now all the time” smile – add something to your life that makes you truly happy. One little thing a day – no matter what, no matter when. And please do not be logical – it has to be something that’s fun for you, not something that will make you money! The true fun part is important here.
從每天多微笑一次開始。不要做一個人造的“我現(xiàn)在一直很快樂”的微笑——給你的生活增添一些讓你真正快樂的東西。一天一小事，無論何時何地。請不要合乎邏輯——它必須是對你來說很有趣的東西，而不是讓你賺錢的東西!真正有趣的部分在這里很重要。
The interesting part about this is, that once you smile more, more people will be drawn to you. More people will want to do business with you. Being happy and enjoying what you do is a very rare product! It creates a space of trust and confidence – someone who is not worried or concerned has a higher ability to resolve problems, has more competence in negotiating and definitely a higher level of creativity.
有趣的是，一旦你微笑更多，就會吸引更多的人。更多的人會想和你做生意?？鞓泛拖硎苣闼龅氖且粋€非常罕見的產(chǎn)品!它創(chuàng)造了一個信任和自信的空間——一個不擔(dān)心或不焦慮的人有更高的解決問題的能力，有更強(qiáng)的談判能力和絕對較高的創(chuàng)造力水平。
And we all know how prices are determined: the less a “product” is available, the higher its price. This does not only apply to oil and gas – it applies to everything; including happy people! So, turn yourself into the most valuable product – by enjoying what you do, and my making changes to your life, job and business that allows you to enjoy what you do.
我們都知道價格是如何確定的：“產(chǎn)品”越少，價格就越高。這不僅適用于石油和天然氣，也適用于一切，包括快樂的人!因此，把自己變成最有價值的產(chǎn)品——通過享受你所做的事情，以及改變你的生活、工作和事業(yè)，讓你享受你所做的一切。
2) Be willing to be different and be aware of yourself:
愿意成為不同并覺察自己
Acknowledge the changes that occur around you when you start changing to more happiness!
Be aware of how people react when you start to have more joy.
Do take one step at a time. Rome was not built in one day. Play with this tool as if it was a game and do it only when it’s really fun for you. Do not exaggerate and be patient. Joy is a state of being – not a state of “doing something.”
當(dāng)你開始改變更多的快樂時，承認(rèn)你周圍發(fā)生的變化!
意識到當(dāng)你開始有更多的快樂時人們是如何反應(yīng)的。
一步一步地做。羅馬不是一天建成的。玩這個工具就像它是一個游戲，只有當(dāng)它對你真的很有趣的時候才這樣做。不要夸大其詞，要有耐心?？鞓肥且环N存在狀態(tài)，而不是“做某事”的狀態(tài)。
3) Look at the big picture, not at numbers only
看大局，而不是僅看數(shù)字
People often tend to analyze their current financial situation or “level of success” by the cash they have in their account or the size of their house they just bought. Money is a very strong indication for success, but not the only one. When analyzing your business or level of success include everything that you truly enjoy doing; include what it creates in this world, what footprint it may leave for future generations and see how it contributes to other businesses and people.
人們往往傾向于根據(jù)賬戶上的現(xiàn)金額或是剛剛買的房子大小來評估他們目前的財(cái)務(wù)狀況或“成功的水平”。金錢是成功的有力標(biāo)志，但不是唯一的標(biāo)志。評估你的生意或成功的水平包括你真正喜歡做的每件事;包括它在這個世界上創(chuàng)造了什么，它留給后代的影響，以及它對其他企業(yè)和人的貢獻(xiàn)。
Running a successful business or having success in your job means waking up every morning so excited that you just can’t wait to start your day, enjoying the people you work with, and knowing that whatever shows up, you will handle it.
經(jīng)營一項(xiàng)成功的事業(yè)或在工作中取得成功意味著每天早上醒來時興奮不已，以至于迫不及待地開始你的一天，享受與你一起工作的人，并且知道無論發(fā)生什么事，你都會處理它。
How would your world look if every great moment was considered a success? If that just put a little smile on your face, then I just had a successful day! Enjoy and keep going!
如果每一個偉大的時刻都被認(rèn)為是成功的話，你的世界會怎樣?如果只是在你臉上掛上一點(diǎn)微笑，那么我就有了一個成功的一天!享受并繼續(xù)前進(jìn)!